A Father is the most important male in a daughters life.he is all in one.A great lecturer,friend,love,a brother for those girls who didn’t have any male sibling,a listener,daughters first and last true love.My dad had lost his mother at a very young age,he has 5 sisters and 4 elder younger brothers.Out of all his brothers,my father is the only one who always respect women.Till date he never scolded or did any wrong to my mother or me.I got the image for a man,that all men are just like him i guess.He taught me that everyone is equal in the eyes of god.And so,i respect all genders, religion,caste,cultures.
My father gave me the best childhood,a child could ever imagine.though his income was very less and i and my mother knew that,he always tried to do as much as he can for us.A child,demands for a loads of things if i talk about this generation.Since my father came out a joint family,living ,building a home with a very little amount was devastating but he put all his efforts.There came a time,when he had 100 rupees and my parents had to skip a one time meal and use that money to feed me milk.Building a home and maintaining his small family without my grandfathers support is absolutely hard but not impossible.he has attended all my ptm , college meetings and stuff,still he hopes best for my future.i could recall a time when i had my breakups,friends who broke me inside out,he was there ,he saw the sadness ,the worst i been through.If i have to compare him with anyone with those male/guy/uncles who entered in my life,there is literally no comparison with him,nobody,will ever take his place in my heart.He is one of a kind.A father to whom i want to take my next birth again.you can rarely find any male anywhere who would be this much good to his wife and daughter.he has given me the best life,a support which i expected from someone else but he gave me more then i ever thought,he made me stronger and he still is there for me always.He is my First man who i love to death.
Online connections is on high mode now a days.i remember how i made friends and mots of them came out to be fake.It was summer, june 4-5 2009,when i received a friend request from a guy,to me he looked kind of fine,a guy not to flirt with.From the very first conversation we had good vibes,one year later we ere best friends.i came to know that he is partially deaf, but this does not change my behavior or attitude towards him.with the disability he as listened,perceived all those emotions that nobody ever got.I have got some really nice people around me,but he was special,a brother i never had.we shared half of our lives with each other,from face chat to online chats,he could feel from what i was or am going through.he is my age.And the realized that he is the most important part of my life when one day,my mother got sick.He was there for me ,chatting continuously to calm my mind,from 11.30 pm in the night to 5 am morning.i have many friends but he came out to be different and real,a true soul.I am a person who hardly display her emotions or problems to anyone,but you have to be close or know me truly if anyone wants me to be his part of life.i could recall the time when i wanted god to gift me a real friend for life and he did it.he taught me,that if you want to make someone a priority,communication is the key,no matter if it is call,messages,you try to feel,know what is going on in others life,how a small amount of love and caring could change someones life. Isn’t it amazing how we both live in different cities yet he knew what is happening in my life or mind,if i am sad,happy,or faking smile.such man are harder to find these days but i got him as my REAL BROTHER for life,the second men of my life.
And at last there comes a man,we want to date,in whom we saw our fathers image,when he started talking to you,and since we had a very good image for men in our mind,we assume this man to be a the same.Found out to be a FAKE man,who had a mentality of draining all your energy,dating with a mean to fuck you ,expecting fun n one night stand,dating you without any future plans,who could hardly be available for you when in need,but available for each and other women.This man has a ability to put all blame on you and show a clean image in front of everyone.He leaves and come back when he wants,loves and make you a complete stranger in the next morning,a fucked up man with whom we share our personal stuff and for him this is regular.If you try to talk or discuss over the matter,you are the one who was wrong but not him.A man who loves to show off,make money and put a fake mask.this man will teach you or give a very false image of how a man should be,when it is not true.Try not to indulge with this man and focus juts focus on your life,because the damage he will do to you would last and it would be hard to come out.
Advice/suggestion : when you mess with one part of a person’s life,you’re messing with their entire life,And affect everything.Realize it before its too late.